What if we challenged our thinking and viewed sex as a skill that can be learned? Something that can be practiced or built on? Something that you don’t have to be an expert at on your first shot, or even your hundredth!? 🤔
What if sex was like a recipe? You start with some ingredients, some tools, and an outline of what to do. Then as you get more comfortable and confident, you change up the recipe. You eventually start to adjust and things come to you with more ease. You have a sense of what would taste good (or feel good) and you go with that!
So often are people worried about doing the wrong thing or not having the experience they are imagining, that they forget to be curious, play, explore, try new things, or change it up when it’s not working anymore.
Imagine if we thought of sex as a skill that we can learn, practice, and get better at. Imagine if we thought there was room to grow. This would decrease the pressure on folks to have it all figured out right away. People might read more books or articles, expand their sex ed. This would increase sexual confidence. And think of all the sexual communication that could happen!
So like a recipe that you learn, practice and eventually rock, sex can too become something you are a badass at! 🙌🏽
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